[VIDEO] Talking Self Confidence

Self Confidence and how I can help you

 

In this post today I want to do a complete talk right now about self confidence.

You know, I used to be super shy, and now, here I am on live video talking to lots of people, and how did that happen?

Well, if this is the first time you have visited my blog, my name is Dianna Good Sky, and I’d like to share a program with you today about something that I’ve learned. Honestly, it took me a lot of years to learn this, but there was a time that I used to be super shy, as a matter of fact, so shy that if I was alone and I needed something to eat, I wouldn’t go through the drive-through at a fast food by myself because I was worried that the workers would see that I was by myself and going to have to eat alone. That’s how shy I used to be.

And as a matter of fact, I could barely speak my opinion, no matter who it was I was speaking to, no matter what condition … Not what condition, what location I was at, I just couldn’t speak my mind. And even in 7th grade, this was a long time of shyness, I passed out in the 7th grade reading a five line poem to my classmates, literally passed out.

So, being shy for me, it was just always something that I was. My mom was super shy too, a lot of it I think was genetics, and a lot of it was just our environment, I think that I was just really super shy, and quiet, can you believe that? I was super quiet. No one who knows me now would say that they would guess that.

Listen to my video about how I built my self confidence

 

 

How to gain Self Confidence

 

self confidenceBut how did I overcome this? Honestly, I said it took me a lot of years, and I overcame it because one day, I realized that I would not be able to really get what I wanted out of life, and I was really small thinking at the time, I was in the military and I had a certain … I was up for sale of the quarter board, and I didn’t win, even though I knew my work was outstanding. I gathered up the nerve, the gumption to ask one of the chiefs in the board and said, “Can you tell me why I didn’t win?”

Let me tell you, that took a lot, I had to work up to that, oh my gosh, I had to do so much self talk to just get to the point of being able to ask that chief; He was a senior chief actually; why I didn’t win the sale of the quarter, ’cause I just knew my work was outstanding.

And he told me, he said, “No one knew who you were. We all know who you are in operations, but no one else knows who you are in the other departments.” And that was when I said, oh my gosh, if I want to attain certain like sale of the quarter, and I knew that would be good for advancement and promotion, if I wanted to get to a certain point, I would need to step out of my comfort zone, start talking to more people and get myself known.

That was the start of my journey to getting more self confidence and stepping away from my shyness, and I did a lot of self talk, and like I said, it took years. But now, where I’m at now is I have learned so much about how to accomplish goals a lot quicker with more than self talk, and a lot quicker.

So, did you know that studies have shown that to develop new habits and therefore those habits that you can reach goals with, it takes between 20 and 60 days or something like that? So if you can develop new habits, you don’t have to take years to get out of your shyness, or you don’t have to take years to get to attain a new self confidence, you can absolutely with these steps that I’m going to give you in this new confidence course, you can have this self confidence in a much shorter amount of time.

I repeat, it took me years, and I still am very shy, I still am very shy. I will go to an event, and I kind of freak out, I don’t do well in a large setting, but I can, I can force myself to do it if I know that I have to do it, like go talk to somebody.

But ordinarily, you will find me still pretty quiet and standing in the corner, until I realize that in order to be able to meet new people and help others, that that’s what I need to do is get out and talk to them. But here’s what I have, I can help you gain self confidence with this short course.

Self Confidence Course to help you

 

My new short course, (the audio is less than 30 minutes long) there are some homework assignments for those of you that really want to understand the why’s and the wherefore’s, but doing the homework assignments will only get you through the process quicker and help set you up with a more solid foundation for how to build the self confidence.

And then once we’re done with that, then I have a planner that you can take with you and you can watch what happens over time with the assignments that are in this self confidence course.

Now, what is that worth? I have no idea. What I do know is that I’m closing the doors on the self confidence course on the Bold Confidence Club very soon, because I’ve opened it up just for a short time for some beta testers, I want to make sure that it’s very good, very clean, and work out all the glitches.

So, I’m closing these doors very soon, if you really want in or if you know anybody that might want to increase their self confidence, or even to develop a new habit of increasing self love and their self image, hit the share button and share it out to your friends and let them sign up while the doors are still open.

So, I just want to encourage you to sign up, this course is short, impact, and can be life changing if you let it, if you let it.

So, join the www.boldconfidenceclub.com right now, and we will see you on the other side. I welcome you and we will have a separate group, I’ll be doing Q and A’s inside that group, you’ll get direct access to me during this course.

But, I’m super excited for it, because if I would have had this when I was 20, imagine where I would have been, imagine what could have been accomplished.

So, share it out, subscribe to the broadcast. And even if you do have a good amount of self confidence, even if you’re not shy, come on in and play along in the club, because you might just learn something.

Thank you again for reading this post and watch my video and if you want more self confidence simply sign up to my new course HERE right now!

 

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You are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!

To YOUR Success,

Dianna

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[VIDEO] What are Affirmations

What are affirmations and do they work?

 

Will they work for you, and how do they work, and what if you only wanted a new car?

What if that’s all you wanted was a new car? I’m here to tell you that I would like to let you know that there is a reason, a scientific reason that affirmations work. I’m not going to get into the science of it because I don’t need the science to understand it and I don’t think everybody does, but I will promise you that when you do affirmations they will work for you and I’m going to tell you how minus the science stuff, okay?

No science here. Listen to my video below as I explain more…

 

 

 

But this is what affirmations are.

 

Affirmations are simply a repeated statement to yourself and they work best if you look in the mirror when you say them, but they’re a statement of something that you may want to accomplish. We’re going to use the car as an instance.

Say you want a new car and an affirmation for a new car is I’m so happy and grateful now that I have my Lexus 300 whatever, I don’t know the names. I should’ve figured that out, or my Honda Odyssey 2017. My brand new 2017 Honda Odyssey.

Now, saying that in the present tense, how this works is that when you say it in the present tense, it allows you to start planting that in your head, okay? Even if it’s not true right away, what happens is your subconscious mind does not know the truth from a lie. It just doesn’t know it, so when you’re planting these seeds of your future truth, if you will, then you will have the ability to, I’m sorry, let me just share this real quick.

You’ll have the ability to really plant these seeds and foster these thoughts. These thoughts will then start to permeate your mind.

When you have these thoughts of the new car, even if it’s not true yet, what will happen is as you’re talking and as these thoughts start, as you’re saying it especially to yourself in the mirror, that’s the best way but you don’t have to have a mirror. But when you’re saying these things any time of day, the more you see it, it will be good to have cards of whatever your affirmation is and say them repeatedly. That plants those seeds. It waters the seeds. It provides fertilization for the seeds.

That seed then gets planted in your subconscious and then what happens is every single time you say that affirmation, when an opportunity comes about you will notice that it’s an opportunity whereas it’s kind of like your eyes are open to something that you may have not have noticed before, you know?

 

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Example of how Affirmations can work

 

Yesterday, I will use this as an example. I have long envisioned myself as a speaker on a stage an I’ve spoken at some events. I realized that I wanted to up-level that so I started to do a bit more affirmation from the speaking point of view.

Yesterday, there was inside this very large group, there was a comment made or a post made about this event, and as I looked at it and I noticed that the speakers were not set yet, fully set, it occurred to me because of these affirmations that I had been repeating, that maybe I should reach out and maybe I should see about increasing my visibility by asking if she needs speakers.

Now, here’s what that affirmation worked with that, because having an affirmation that is continually in the forefront of your brain helps you see windows of opportunity that may have not existed before but were probably already there that you didn’t see, I should say. You didn’t see the opportunity there before, but because it’s on your brain, these things happen more and you see them more actually. You just see them more.

When something like that happens and you say, okay, now you’re going to take the action that will help make these affirmations come true. Do you see how this works? So the affirmations are repeated statements of something that you want to accomplish.

It can be a goal. It can be just anything. Like I said, a car. I’m so happy and grateful now that I have a 2017 Honda Odyssey brand new sitting in my driveway. It’s red. It’s got leather seats, and you can envision that.

But what will happen is repeating that all the time, you will notice things that will come up that you may not, that you just didn’t see before. That’s how the affirmations work and they can be used for anything. These repeated statements, they simply put it in your mind and they prompt you to take action.

If you need more money to buy a car, then more opportunities to make money will come up and you’ll recognize them as opportunities to make money to put down towards your car. Do you see that? It’s really quite simply, phenomenal and just it really works.

 

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Affirmations can give us Confidence!

 

So, I was going through my course, my confidence course and I did it from start to finish. It’s only 30 minutes in total except for when you stop to do the homework. I have to tell you I’m very, very thrilled with it. I’m very proud of it. It’s 30 minutes long and it’s great. It’s a great course. I’ve got some cleaning up to do on it a little bit but part of that is we do include affirmations in this, and affirmations to increase self-confidence.

That’s how powerful that they are. I know that they work and again, they simply drive home to you what you need to be paying attention to and it helps you take action to make those things come true. That’s how they work. So whatever it is that you want.

If you want more information, let me know. Comment below if you have any questions about affirmation work. I’d love to help you.

I’m very excited and pleased about my Confidence Course and soon it will be getting released it to the public.

Thank you so much for reading this post and I hope you have learned more about what affirmations are and how affirmations work. Comment below if you’ve used them before, if you know how to use them and if you’ve had some results. I’d love to hear about it and even share some powerful affirmations you have written too!

You are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!

To YOUR Success,

Dianna

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[VIDEO] Do You Have Decision Freedom?

Do you have decision freedom?

 

Do you know what decision freedom is? Decision freedom is the ability to make any decision you want no matter what area of life you’re talking about. Whether it’s to take a vacation, whether it’s to take a day off from work, whether it’s to home school your children, that is decision freedom, my friends.

I was really compelled to write this post to talk about what it’s like to have this decision freedom and how do you get there. What does a person do in their life to have decision freedom. I want to just share with you a couple of things that I’ve learned about how I’ve managed to get there and I’m not fully there yet.

I’m not sure, I do know this, that the ability to make the decisions that I want to really actually come from within and that matter what area of life you’re talking about, to be able to have decision freedom, starts from with inside of you where you just make that split second decision of yes, I’m going to do this, not matter what this is.

If you decide that you want to take a trip to Italy because you’ve always wanted to go to Italy, that decision happens as soon as you decide. If it’s your gut instinct that you’ve got to go to Italy, you need to make that decision.

And then, here’s what happens, when you make that decision, everything falls into place. It’s really remarkable. Did you know that you’re one decision away from a whole new life? You’re one decision away from a new job, you’re one decision away from a relationship or whether you’re going to stay in a relationship or whether you’re going to leave the relationship.

I mean, all of your life changes are based on all these decisions.

And so, how you get to decision freedom, the ability to do anything you want in your life, boils down to how you handle all of these other decisions. These decisions whether you want to go to the gym and get in better shape, make that decision and do it.

Whether you want to write a book and publish it and just do it. Whether you want to make your marriage better by having date nights, all of these things are decisions that happen, that are daily. Every single day, you make daily decisions and they end up leading you, when you’re ready for it, to decision freedom.

I invite you to watch my following video where I explain how having decision freedom can really impact your life!

 

 

 

So how do you get to having decision freedom?

 

You simply, and I say simply, it’s simple, but it’s not easy just like so many things in life, simple, but not easy. When it comes time to make a decision, you really have to do think about, “Okay, exactly what do I want to do with this? What do I want to do with this relationship? What do I want to do with this job? What do I want to do with this family member who keeps dragging me down?”

Whatever that is, or “This child who’s having trouble in school and I can’t seem to get them to want to listen to the teacher,” you know, what can I do about that? All these things, every single day you’re faced with so many decisions and it’s those decisions that really carve out your life and who you are and how you handle it.

Soon, what I hope that means for you is that all those decisions that are daily, that are simple to make, but hard to make, if that makes any kind of sense, you have to do it, you have to decide. Let me backtrack a little bit, the longer a person waits to make a decision about something, the harder it becomes.

decision freedomIf you are waffling on making a decision, that actually means that you probably know the answer, but you’re not comfortable with that the decision is going to be. If that’s going on, that’s actually when you know you’re on the right track because if you’re facing a big decision and you’re feeling a little uncomfortable with it, that probably means you’re facing what’s known as the terror barrier.

When you face up with that terror barrier, most often, people will kind of backtrack and say, “I can’t go that route. That’s a decision that I can’t make. Now I don’t know if I can follow through with that.” That means you’re kind of afraid, but I will tell you, that if you’re facing a decision that makes you afraid and you understand that that decision or that terror barrier is coming up against you and that’s why you’re waffling, then that means that you’re probably on the right track, you can understand what’s happening, and you can just push through that terror barrier and then freedom stands on the other side of that.

Your freedom is on the other side of that wall.

All of these decisions then, will eventually lead you to, and it may happen you know next month, next year, three years, whatever, but soon when you build up the understanding of what’s going on every time it comes to making the decision, then you can get to the other side and you can have decision freedom because you understand what’s making you afraid, and you understand that you can plow through it and you’re fine.

So thank you so much for reading this post and I want to encourage all of you to think about this, do I have decision freedom, am I able to decide to do anything that I want to do? And if you don’t, please consider that every single decision you make, can and will lead you there.

 

Go towards decision freedom, it’s where everything awesome is!

 

If you have friends or family that need to have decision freedom in their life too, then please go ahead and share this post and also leave a comment and tell me your thoughts.

and remember….

You are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!

To YOUR Success,

Dianna

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[VIDEO] 10 Affirmations That Could Change Your Life

Affirmations and bringing positivity in your life

 

In this post I’d love to discuss affirmations!

Affirmations are something you can complete morning and night, you can write your own or even use some of the ones I’m going to include in this post.

If something negative in your life happens, take your list of affirmations, wherever you have them, and just re-read these affirmations, close your eyes if you need to, to really get emotionally involved. Affirmations are powerful statements that can take you to a place of strength, positivity and what can be possible.

Either click to watch the follow video or read on…

 

 

 

Affirmations and why they work

 

Now, I’m going to talk about why reading through your list of affirmations work. The reason that this type of work works with you or on you, for you, is because every time somebody … All of our results are based on our actions, and our actions are driven by our feelings, and our feelings are driven by our thoughts. The only way to make long lasting change is to be able to change the thoughts, and then, therefore, create new feelings, or change the feelings that we have about certain thoughts. Okay, did that sound a little crazy?

Let me give you an example:

Say, for example, somebody said to you something like, “I really don’t like that dress you’re wearing,” and you weren’t wearing a dress. Would that impact you? Probably not. The reason is because it didn’t make any sense, so in your brain, your processing part of it says, “Well, I’m not wearing a dress, so that doesn’t impact me.” Therefore, no feelings would have come into play. Therefore, you would not have been hurt by something that somebody said, when you knew it wasn’t true.

When you’re trying to change the thought pattern that you have or the feelings that you have about what people say to you, you’ve gotta kinda pay really close attention to allowing these thoughts to create the feelings that you have. If somebody says to you, “I really don’t like that dress you’re wearing,” or, “I can’t believe you wore that dress,” and you do have a dress on, there’s kind of an automatic, “Oh, well, gosh,” and then your feelings get involved, and then they might get hurt because you allowed that thought to penetrate your mind.

Then, your feelings get hurt, and then again, it drives your action, and it drives your results. Time after time, if you allow these things to come in like that, that’s how you end up with low self esteem or low self confidence. If enough of those feelings and actions have happened, that is the result.

 

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The reason why these affirmations work and the ability to start believing in yourself, is because as you are doing this work, you’re … Trust me, you’re going to need to do this daily, and you’re going to need to do this routinely, and you’re going to need to do this, revisit this, and make sure that your affirmations are in line with what you want and where you want to go, in alignment with your truth.

You’ve gotta go back, and you’ve gotta say, “All right, I am worthy.” The more you say it, the more you start to believe it. Therefore, your thoughts change your feelings, and that belief system is what gets you really feeling it. It really bolsters you. That’s why you’ve gotta do it.

I’m gonna introduce to you … I just want you to and that this type of work does work when you do the work. It only takes a few minutes every morning, every night, and every time you need it, but just start to bolster your own belief system, so that you can protect yourself, so that you can only allow yourself to be emotionally involved in feelings that are true, which is you are awesome; you are amazing; and you are beautiful; and you are worthy, you are truthful; you are, all that, whatever your affirmations are.

By only allowing the truth to come in, that’s when your self confidence really, really starts to bolster. By doing this work, that’s exactly how it works.

 

10 Affirmations that could change your life!

 

By allowing myself to be happy, I inspire others around me to radiate happiness and positivit

My heart if overflowing with love, abundance and joy

I find happiness in the simple things and am grateful for everything in my life

I am strong and courageous and full of confidence

I am content with my life even as I work harder towards success

I love meeting new people and approach them with boldness and enthusiasm

I find solutions to challenges easily and embrace adversity as a time to learn and grow

My personality exudes confidence. I am bold, brave and outgoing

I surround myself with positive people and only attract like-minded people

I have integrity. I am totally reliable and self responsible for my own actions

 

Affirmations and Mirror Work

 

This last piece that we’re gonna go through is what’s called mirror work. I want to explain why this works. Mirror work was, I believe, invented by Louise Hayes, Louisa Hayes, and feel free to Google her, but her work was pretty phenomenal and mind blowing in a lot of ways. What it does is … She just does … I can’t believe I don’t have one. She takes a mirror, and she just talks to herself.

Now, that work is perfectly fine. You can do that, if you like to do that, but another way that you can do mirror work is just look, look into the mirror, I’m trying to figure out which … Look into the mirror, and speak these things, speak these awesome words in one eye, and then look at the other eye, and say these words to yourself: I am worthy; I am loved; I am awesome; I am amazing; I am beautiful; I am fit; I am fabulous; I am freaking awesome.

Then do it again. Do it for about five times, each eye, and in time, and it does take time, but in time, you’ll start to believe it and know it, ’cause truth is easy to believe when it is truth, and those are all truths.

That’s our mirror work. Again, I just want you to know, if you don’t have enough oomph or confidence to believe any of these words, do not worry. It will come with time. Please know that I believe it of you, even if you don’t right now. Take my belief and know that I feel that way about you. I know that you are awesome, and you are amazing, and you are beautiful. I really do.

Oh, last thing, ah! Do this mirror work for at least 30 day and watch what happens in your life. Watch what happens when you have this massive confidence and when you have this self confidence.

 

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Watch how you treat people differently, how they treat you, and watch the difference in your whole life because this new thinking and this new feeling about yourself causes new actions, and it’s gonna create bigger results.

Remember to share this post if you loved it and remember:

You are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!

To YOUR Success,

Dianna

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[VIDEO] Living in your Purpose with Confidence

Are you living in your purpose fully?

Have you heard the story about the messenger?

I just heard this story the other day and it really touched me because I loved the message of it and I want to share that with you today. It’s a message about purpose actually. I want to talk to you about living in your purpose because that is my passion, sharing how to grow into your best self, how to live in purpose, live your life on purpose. The story of the messenger, which apparently came from Mary a third party, I have not yet found the original source.

The story is about the messenger who’s only job was to give the king a message, one message, one job.

Now here’s what happened. Apparently the messenger had a long journey and on this journey he decided to stop and visit the market and then he stopped to socialize with friends and then he stopped and decided to lay bricks for a little while, do you see the drift here? He had one job, his whole job was to take his message to the king. Now what he did along the way was got distracted, diverted and never made it to the king with the one message, because he was distracted all the time.

How does that fit into purpose and living in your purpose?

I’ll tell you. Isn’t that the same thing? If you are not living in your purpose, in the thing that you are supposed to do in your life here, aren’t you the same as that messenger, continually allowing distractions and diversions to get in the way of the things that you’re, what you’re supposed to be doing. A lot of us call it, some of us have a job that we’re not exactly fit in with.

Some of us are doing something that it doesn’t exactly wake us up and make us smile, or we smile instantly because we are living our life in our true purpose.

Watch my video to hear the whole story…

 

 

 

I encourage you to start living in your purpose

 

living in your purposeI just want to encourage you, take a moment and think, am I doing exactly what I want to be doing in my life? Am I living in my purpose?

Think about that. I guarantee you if you pause and reflect on that you will find insight into yourself and if you have determined that you are not living in your purpose, you know how old I was when I stopped saying I don’t know what I want to be when I grow up? I was in my 50’s, it’s normal. Take that moment and I want to encourage you, please reflect on what you’re doing and if you are not completely 100 percent certain that you are living in your purpose, please do something about it.

The world deserves your true gift, whatever that is. Please start living in your purpose, it’s important for us and for you. That’s my message for this post today, and I would love it if you shared this post, subscribe to my notifications too so you don’t miss out on any latest posts.

I love helping people and giving tips and hows too’s. I hoped you have learned more about living in your purpose and I encourage you to start doing so today.

REMEMBER:

You are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!

To YOUR Success,

Dianna

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[VIDEO] Confidence Tips – Build Your Confidence Muscle

My Confidence Tips To Help Boost Your Confidence

Confidence! Did you know that confidence is like a muscle? Well it’s actually pretty easy to strengthen this muscle by starting to implement the confidence tips I’m going to give you today.

I think confidence is a great topic to discuss for everyone because without building confidence in many aspects of our lives, we can be held back from things we are wanting to achieve.

So, why or how can we build this oh so important part of our personality, of our character, of who we are? People with self confidence have the ability to be at ease in most situations, because they are comfortable in their skin. That is probably the easiest way to explain what it’s like to see somebody with self confidence. You can see that they’re comfortable in their skin and comfortable with what they’re doing, but a lot of people are wishing that they had more self confidence and so I’m gonna talk about some of the things that I have learned.

I have confidence now but I didn’t always used to have confidence. I remember being in the Military I was super shy and quiet up until I was an E5, which was, you know … Actually, no I was an E6, so I was quite a few years in. Maybe six or seven years in the Military when I finally realized that the only way that I was gonna get recognize for what I was doing and get promoted etc, besides studying for the test, taking, passing a test and all that kinda stuff, which I was doing, but the best way that I could get my word, my name known and people know me and I could get selected for sale of the quarter, obviously that’s an old mood, but I needed the confidence to speak up, because I was so shy and quiet.

I mean, I know that a lot of people find that surprising, but I was super shy and super quiet and I realized one day, I just kind of had a wake up call, that the only way that I was really going to be heard and that I can really contribute to the command’s efficiency and everybody, was I had to speak up and so I had to do a lot of confidence building and started searching for my own confidence tips.

I didn’t realize what it was then, but I just knew that I had to do something to be able to speak up and you know be able to present that I knew needed to be presented. Do work that needed to be done and here’s the bottom line with any situation. When you exude self confidence when people know that you’re confident about what you’re saying, that allows them to believe in you too and that allows them to hear you better.

It’s just human nature. Just the way that it is. So hey listen up, I would really love it if you took the time to watch my following video where I will lay out some actionable confidence tips that you can start working on today!

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Confidence Tips You Can Start Applying Today!

Ok, so read on for some of my top confidence tips.

I’ll give you some tips for how to build confidence and if you know anybody that might need to have the information and might want build confidence tips, feel free to share this post on social media or even email to a friend. The confidence tips that I’m gonna share with you in this post are just one way of confidence building.

There are several actually, but I’m just gonna share this one way that I like to use and something that I realized had I used these tools back when I myself lacked self confidence. Hey, it’s not an overnight thing but at least it may have got me there sooner. It’s something that you can do that you can use to build on. So here we go:

Confidence Tips

 

  1. Acknowledge and recognize what you’ve already done. Take a piece of paper and start to write out some of the things you’ve already accomplished. Spend some time here, write out as many as you can. As many accomplishments and I’m telling you they can be anything from eating broccoli when you didn’t feel like eating broccoli, because you were a guest at a dinner party to … Which, that’s an accomplishment if you don’t like broccoli, to giving birth, to flying to be with your sister after a surgery. Anything that you know just kind of, where you kinda know, “Yeah I did that. I did that.”
  2. Write down your strengths. The things that you know that you’re strong on. You know you have a great education. You toughed it out and went to school, you dropped out of high school and then you went back to school and graduated. You don’t change your baby’s diapers five times in a row. I mean any … You know how to do that. Or you have twins and you know how to juggle two babies at once. Anything that you find is a strength in you.

 

You have two different pieces of papers here. Okay, you’ve got your accomplishments, anything that you know that you accomplished. Number two, you’ve got strengths. The strengths that you know you have and you just list them and just do a complete brain dump on all of these things.

Find out your true character strengths by using this fantastic Strengths Tool by VIA Character.Org HERE

How To Use Your Confidence Tips

 

This is how you’re gonna use them. You’re going to review these reminders to you of what you’ve already done and the things that you find that are strengths in you and if you want ask somebody that’s close to you and say, “What do you think are my strengths?” I find that incredibly empowering, when we find out from somebody else that they find us inspirational or that they find us courageous. Some things that maybe we didn’t think about for ourselves.

Add things, add to that and keep them handy. Keep these sheets handy for yourself and review them every day, every time that you need it, review them frequently. What will start to happen is you’ll start in your brain to realize that all the good. You’ll start to remember more routinely all the good that you’ve already done and everything that you’ve already accomplished and then guess what?

You can add to it!

confidence tipsEvery single time that you think of something that is a strength, that you maybe didn’t … Just add to that and all of these pieces and parts that you have throughout the day, that you’re looking at it or you just kinda keep it on a piece of paper and you read it or say you’re taking a break. You just take a break and you read it, it’s amazing what this positive influx of good will do for your brain and how it will impact your self confidence.

Now, those are two great big things and I know I covered them briefly in these confidence tips, but just try it. You will be amazed at what happens when you sit down and recognize your own strengths and your own accomplishments and then you use them as reminders for you. Those are two big things. Another thing that builds self confidence is the ability to accomplish goals. If you have a certain goal, start small as far as keeping track of it and it could be that you’re going to not eat the coconut cream pie that’s in the refrigerator!

In other words, write down a goal, a small one, that is like within your reach or something that you can do tomorrow or within this next week and what will happen is that when you write down a goal and you accomplish it and then you write down another one? Every time you accomplish that, it automatically boosts your self confidence.

All these things, these are my top confidence tips to start and then you keep on routine with these. You keep them in foreword focus for you. Keep them right here for you. Get a book maybe. Get a book. You keep that all written down and just review it and watch yourself bloom. Just watch. I’m so excited to watch you do that for you. Anytime you need a boost you can review it.

Listen, I’m going to be launching a confidence course very soon called Bold Confidence Club. To get on the waiting list email me at dianna@diannagoodsky.com and I’ll let you know when we are planning to launch. We have already done a beta test and had fantastic feedback. I’m very excited about it and proud of the project and it was so amazing to see people in the group transforms.

We will also have a private Facebook Group for all course members and I’ll be in there interacting and helping you every step of your confidence journey.

Thank you very much for listening to me today and again, remember confidence is like a muscle and you can build it and you just gotta work on it daily. Every day.

Take a look at your sheets. Look at your accomplishments. Look at your strengths. Remind yourself how amazing you are, because that’s how you start right now. That’s just an easy way to start that you can do yourself and I hope you enjoyed these confidence tips!

 

 

You are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!

To YOUR Success,

Dianna

Email: Dianna@DiannaGoodSky.com

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